Try Detachment. If its really yours or if the person is loyal, they will be back. Think of everyone and everything in your life as a Gift. God is gifting you the Universe and his/her numerous belongings. What a generous lender! If you can keep this mindset, you NEVER LOSE ANYTHING, because you never had anything to begin with. See? This perspective helps if you really want something. You will get everything you deserve and you deserve the best. We all do. Trust that Universe is working on your side. Good night.